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wrote on November 22, 2017
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8:41 pm
Finding this website is literally a godsend for me right now. I have been a picky eater all of my life. This has been such a sore topic in my life and honestly I'm tired of hiding and trying to get people to understand. They tried to force feed me as a child, I've been made made fun of by family,friends,coworkers etc , I've pretended to eat food,hide it or act like I just ate to not appear "weird". Yet at 32 I still ear nothing more than chips,French fries,cereal,breaded chicken or shrimp. All of my foods have to be crunchy and I dont eat vegetables but I love fruit. I have 2 children that I try to offer more foods but its hard when my palette and so bland and I'm not sure what it should taste like. Me not being much of cook is a big insecurity for me especially now that I am in a new relationship. He knows I'm picky but I dont think he quite understands how serious and difficult it is for me. I'm scared it will put tension between us eventually. As I write this I just want to cry because something I have no control over has affected every part of my life. I just want to be normal
Admin Reply by: Bob
I suggest that you tell your new relationship about how you eat and you can throw in you never wanted to be this way and you would change if you could. The longer you wait the more potential damage it will do to the relationship. I had two marriages that lasted 3 years each and before my 3rd wife and I went on our first date I told her just how bad it was and don't ever expect me to get any better. That was about 20 years ago and we are still happily married. If your new relationship is strong you should stay together. If not better to find out now that it's going to be a big problem and move on to someone who will love you just the way you are. I would bet you are gifted in other ways. You should point that out to your new relation ship and also how you will be so loving and loyal if they accept you just the way you are. Good Luck Bob K
